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Gaopalelwe Phalaetsile

Gaopalelwe Phalaetsile

    Motherhood is ... optional
    Motherhood is ... optional
    For many years, motherhood has not been optional for women. Women who cannot have children have found themselves negotiating their worth over...
    #HoeIsLife is sexual freedom like you’ve never seen it before
    #HoeIsLife is sexual freedom like you’ve never seen it before
    Society hates when *womxn have power, especially over our sexuality and our bodies. Patriarchy determines the terms and conditions of sex...
    When we cannot trust our own fathers, which men can we trust?
    When we cannot trust our own fathers, which men can we trust?
    I remember wondering if I could still wear my short night dress or my short pyjama pants. I had never felt like that in my entire life. I was 18...
    Let’s be real – Kasi Mlungu is problematic AF
    Let’s be real – Kasi Mlungu is problematic AF
    Wouldn’t it be nice if I woke up tomorrow morning and decided from now on I am white? I would be "The black white" and no one would criticise...