James Blunt’s Goodbye My Lover is the song most requested at British funerals and remembrance services, closely followed by Robbie Williams’s Angels, according to a survey released on Monday.
Research for the Bereavement Register found just over a half (51%) of people ask for a specific song be be played at their funeral and 79% have talked with family and friends about possible song choices. The survey of 5 000 people also uncovered some unusual final choices for the final goodbye with rock songs like I’ll Sleep When I am Dead by Bon Jovi, competing with classical tracks and soul.
”The top 20 really shows how far we have come in terms of saying goodbye. Gone are the days dirges of yore, instead we are seeing contemporary music that is easier to relate to,” said Mark Roy, founder of the Bereavement Register, which removes the names and addresses of people who have died from databases to reduce junk mail.
”Everyone has a favourite song that means something very special to them, often connected to a particular time and place. When the song is played this can be a very emotive reminder of that person,” he said in a statement.
Although fashions change there have been some consistent favourites over recent years like Wind Beneath My Wings at number four and Candle In The Wind — a reworked version of which played at Princess Diana’s funeral in 1997 — which was at number six.
Many of the songs represented the different ages of the deceased.
Songs like Danny Boy (number 11 in the list) tended to be played at the funerals of the elderly while S Club 7’s Reach For The Stars (number 20) was more usual at children’s funerals, the survey showed.
Others in the top 20 included Knocking On Heaven’s Door by Bob Dylan and, perhaps unexpectedly, Fame‘s I Want To Live Forever. – Reuters