Nthatho Moyisi

Despite more than 30 years of the feminist movement, men still hold sway over how relationships turn out. And they are helped by the women who love them. Sitting at a bar with a few of friends — all male and married or in stable relationships — we discussed the Judge Siraj Desai saga. Or, more pointedly, how we would have reacted had we been Mark Isaacs (the cuckolded spouse) and somebody had slept with our partner, consensually or not.