This is not who I am, says ‘Facebook rapist’

“Facebook rapist” Thabo Bester was sentenced to 50 years imprisonment on Friday for raping and robbing two women.

Durban magistrate Sharon Marks gave him 15 years’ imprisonment for each of the two counts of rape.

He was sentenced to another 15 years, with five years suspended, for each of the two counts of armed robbery with aggravating circumstances.

On Wednesday, Bester pleaded guilty to all four charges.

Bester (22) has been dubbed the “Facebook rapist” because he used social media to lure women throughout the country.

He told them international modelling scouts were interested in them and met them in person. Bester would then rape and rob them at knife-point.

The sentence related to two incidents involving two women raped and robbed at two different lodges in Durban in August.

‘He hurt me’
Bester was expected to be taken to Gauteng at the weekend to face other charges there, including murder.

On Friday he burst into tears in the Durban Magistrate’s Court when he explained the circumstances which he said led him to commit his crimes.

Speaking in mitigation of his sentence, he told the court he had been raped by his grandmother’s friend when he was young, raped several times by a man who promised to look after him, and that he was gang-raped in prison.

He said he had never seen his parents and that he lived under excruciating conditions with his alcoholic grandmother and grandfather on a farm in Gauteng.

Bester said he was raped by his grandmother’s friend, and that when he told his grandmother about the abuse, it was like talking to a wall.

“My grandmother’s friend hurt me when he raped me, and I had an operation on my behind.”

He said the situation became worse when his grandmother died, and he had to live with his friends in a squatter camp.

While living there he was approached by a man who promised to look after him, but who had then locked him in his house for days and raped him.

‘This is not truly who I am’
Bester told the court the difficulties he encountered forced him to commit crime.

“I resorted to crime to support myself. It is either you die or make a plan,” he said.

He had been found guilty of fraud in 2009 and sentenced to six months in jail with an option of paying a R1500 fine.

“I did not have money to pay. They treated me badly in prison because they thought I was from a well-off family.”

He had been gang-raped. A bottle with soapy water was inserted into his anus while he was in prison.

The report about his prison abuse was presented in court on Friday. It only mentioned the abuse, but not the rapes.

Seeking to persuade the court to give him a lesser sentence, Bester said he needed a second chance.

“I know I have done terrible things. This is not truly who I am. I want the opportunity to put things right,” he said.

Hurt, raped and robbed
The court heard that Bester was also found guilty for fraud in March this year and his two-year-sentence was suspended for five years.

Marks said she found no compelling circumstances to give Bester a lesser sentence, saying the interest of society outweighed his personal circumstances.

She said the evidence showed Bester had planned his crime well and she questioned whether he was remorseful.

“You may regret your conduct but that does not make you remorseful. You have not explained what motivated you to commit these crimes,” she said.

Bester’s acts had caused huge harm to his victims, she said. One of the victims had to be hospitalised for five days and she had 13 stitches in her head because of Bester, she said.

“You hurt her, raped her and robbed her. She has now lost her trust and she has continual nightmares.”

Bester told the court it was not his intention to rape the women and that he had been impelled by lust. He said his intention was to rob them only.

During cross-examination, state prosecutor Lolly Soobramany asked Bester why he did not hand himself over after he contacted the investigating officer.

Bester said he had wanted to surrender to police, but became scared when he saw the story about his crimes in newspapers, and ran.

He said he knew he was sought across the country for crimes including murder.

Soobramany described Bester as a danger to society, saying what he had done had caused trauma to his victims which would stay with them for the rest of their lives.

Bester, who used aliases including Thomas, was arrested last Wednesday in Alberton, south of Johannesburg. — Sapa

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