Body Language

 
Find your P-spot, bro
Find your P-spot, bro
Pegging. Surprisingly, it’s not an act by pirate on the high seas, but a sex act involving a strap-on, lube and dismantling conventional gender...
Men keep taking their lives
Men keep taking their lives
A while back, residents of the complex where I used to live were rattled when the body of a very successful dentist who had taken his own life was...
‘Boys will be boys’ doesn’t cut it
‘Boys will be boys’ doesn’t cut it
When a child is born, only well wishes are sent to the mother and the family. No one sends messages of caution, a message like “As you welcome...
Cute folk are more permissive
Cute folk are more permissive
People tend to have strong moral feelings about matters such as premarital sex, gay marriage or abortion.
Yes, men can be harassed too
Yes, men can be harassed too
Mike says it took him a while to recognise that he was a victim of workplace sexual harassment. It all started when his boss, who was 20 years his...
Sadly, vegans can’t save Earth
Sadly, vegans can’t save Earth
Christiana Figueres, the former United Nations official responsible for the 2015 Paris Climate Agreement, has a startling vision for restaurants of...
Myths shroud queer abuse
Myths shroud queer abuse
In the queer community the idea is that everything is fine — we are loving and sexing, and the only violence we must fear is from the...
The fear of the feminine is futile
The fear of the feminine is futile
I was in grade six. My teacher softly suggested to my grandmother that I must be sent to a boy’s high school, to “man me up” because I played...
Ways to be a super queer ally
Ways to be a super queer ally
Allyship has been defined by the Canadian PeerNetBC as “an active, consistent and arduous practice of unlearning and re-evaluating, in which a...
Domestic abuse isn’t only by men
Domestic abuse isn’t only by men
I accompanied my friend to one of his weekly church cell meetings in our area. He had been nagging me to attend at least one church service with...
Daily moments of loneliness
Daily moments of loneliness
It’s a Saturday morning. Just after 4am, possibly headed for 5am. I’m not sure. My walk is unsteady. I’m hungry. I’m dizzy and heavy from...
No home for bisexual black men
No home for bisexual black men
Our solidarity is often built on trauma. And as we attempt to extend brotherhood and love in the quest to create new and safer homes, it is...

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