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All the knowledge we do not know yet
Article
/ 14 December 2018

All the knowledge we do not know yet

"Recovering ancient hidden knowledges, as long as we are responsible with them, is important considering how many ills there are in our society."

By Milisuthando Bongela
​Learning to trust curiosity over fear
Article
/ 5 October 2018

​Learning to trust curiosity over fear

"What a funny sight it would be to see power dynamics neutralised by something as ordinary as friendship".

By Milisuthando Bongela
Punishing rapists isn’t good enough
Article
/ 10 August 2018

Punishing rapists isn’t good enough

Is the articulation of anger helping to create more value around women’s safety, our lives and our needs in relation to the men in our society?

By Milisuthando Bongela
What does blue-ticking mean for building trust?
Article
/ 29 June 2018

What does blue-ticking mean for building trust?

How has our digital communication affected our relationship to the concept of seeing each other’s humanity?

By Milisuthando Bongela
The bitter pill of being just to a meanie
Article
/ 11 May 2018

The bitter pill of being just to a meanie

After an encounter on the plane Milisuthando Bongela concludes that: “When given the choice to be right or to be kind, always choose to be kind.”

By Milisuthando Bongela
Some histories to keep our interracial friendship honest
Article
/ 16 March 2018

Some histories to keep our interracial friendship honest

"It’s not that I wanted to be white. But I wanted them to accept and like me and I was all too happy to jump through the hoops."

By Milisuthando Bongela
Recalibrating our responses
Article
/ 2 March 2018

Recalibrating our responses

"In South Africa, fighting occupies the space between everything".

By Milisuthando Bongela
In search of real connections amid all the noise
Article
/ 16 February 2018

In search of real connections amid all the noise

"In the absence of living on a piece of land with my extended family… I yearn for this kind of connection in my modern life".

By Milisuthando Bongela
Building bridges over taken land
Article
/ 8 December 2017

Building bridges over taken land

"Do I go Winnie or Mandela on him? Urrrggghhhh, I’m just trying to get fit, I don’t want to think about racism right now bletty shet".

By Milisuthando Bongela
The strange places we misplace power
Article
/ 6 October 2017

The strange places we misplace power

"The power we attribute to the people in whose name apartheid was made is perhaps too generous at times and too limited to the power to have things".

By Milisuthando Bongela
Feelings don’t get the respect they deserve
Article
/ 22 September 2017

Feelings don’t get the respect they deserve

"Feelings are at the core of everything we do and yet we do not give them the intellectual, personal and public attention they deserve".

By Milisuthando Bongela
How do we live hopefully in a difficult world?
Article
/ 8 September 2017

How do we live hopefully in a difficult world?

"Being human is not an event. It is a process of traversing a timeline where suffering is as much of a fact as laughter."

By Milisuthando Bongela
The politics of iintw’ezimnandi
Article
/ 25 August 2017

The politics of iintw’ezimnandi

"The fridge nje wasn’t an area you could casually visit as and when you pleased."

By Milisuthando Bongela
Uyadelela if you think you know South Africa
Article
/ 11 August 2017

Uyadelela if you think you know South Africa

"I freeze. A few but many seconds pass and I tell Sam that I’m not comfortable searching her."

By Milisuthando Bongela
Bread, chicken and the vulnerability of tough little children
Article
/ 30 June 2017

Bread, chicken and the vulnerability of tough little children

Iimbali! is a space for stories and other narrative-based social analysis

By Milisuthando Bongela
Lest we forget: Grand histories are built on personal stories
Article
/ 23 June 2017

Lest we forget: Grand histories are built on personal stories

"I found it very connective and de-isolating, soothing the pain I felt as a child"

By Milisuthando Bongela
A snapshot of our everydays
Article
/ 9 June 2017

A snapshot of our everydays

Iimbali! is a space for stories and other narrative-based social analysis

By Milisuthando Bongela
​They say if you really love something, let it go
Article
/ 15 December 2016

​They say if you really love something, let it go

Iimbali is a space for stories and other narrative-based social analysis

By Milisuthando Bongela
The cloying discomfort of the middle
Article
/ 9 December 2016

The cloying discomfort of the middle

Iimbali is a space for stories and other narrative-based social analysis.

By Milisuthando Bongela
Spoonfuls of raw meat and ‘stubborn gladness’
Article
/ 18 November 2016

Spoonfuls of raw meat and ‘stubborn gladness’

Iimbali is a space for stories and other narrative-based social analysis

By Milisuthando Bongela
Living your best life while your country burns
Article
/ 4 November 2016

Living your best life while your country burns

Iimbali is a space for stories and other narrative-based social analysis

By Milisuthando Bongela
Searching for beauty that makes you feel alive
Article
/ 27 October 2016

Searching for beauty that makes you feel alive

Iimbali is a space for stories and other narrative-based social analysis

By Milisuthando Bongela
A moment of truth as two worlds collide
Article
/ 30 September 2016

A moment of truth as two worlds collide

Iimbali is a space for stories and other narrative-based social analysis

By Milisuthando Bongela
It’s all about perspective — shifting my gaze to find meaning in the mundane
Article
/ 29 July 2016

It’s all about perspective — shifting my gaze to find meaning in the mundane

I am learning that, in a perfect way, life on the left hand will confuse and worry you with problems and, on the right, hold the bread of solutions.

By Milisuthando Bongela
How we remember and respect our inner child
Article
/ 10 June 2016

How we remember and respect our inner child

​Fumbatha May recounts treasured childhood memories in Mdantsane, as a part of the Growing-Up edition

By Staff Reporter
Why I cherish my inconvenient friendships
Article
/ 20 May 2016

Why I cherish my inconvenient friendships

There is irreplaceable value in both convenient and inconvenient friendships, writes Milisuthando Bongela.

By Milisuthando Bongela
Miss me with the two-ply toilet paper life
Article
/ 12 May 2016

Miss me with the two-ply toilet paper life

We have our own historical justifications for the ways in which we spend our money, writes Milisuthando Bongela.

By Milisuthando Bongela
What of the games we used to play?
Article
/ 18 April 2016

What of the games we used to play?

From umGushe, Bayishoza to SmaDlamini, writer Milisuthando Bongela asks "how did these games travel across the country"?

By Milisuthando Bongela
The powerful lines between structural barriers and personal agency
Article
/ 13 April 2016

The powerful lines between structural barriers and personal agency

Structural barriers and the misplaced emphasis on personal agency have resulted in gaps in our society, writes Milisuthando Bongela.

By Milisuthando Bongela
Dining in Pollsmoor: The ethics of a prison restaurant
Article
/ 8 April 2016

Dining in Pollsmoor: The ethics of a prison restaurant

Pollsmoor prison restaurant serves the Cape Town public food. Milisuthando Bongela reflects on the ethics of running a prison restaurant.

By Milisuthando Bongela
Lunch and life: The way we were
Article
/ 11 March 2016

Lunch and life: The way we were

Milisuthando Bongela takes us back to childhood break times in East London.

By Milisuthando Bongela

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