‘Just one?” said the man at Athens airport with stagy concern when I asked for a ticket to the port. Greeks seem upset by single travellers.
They’re a family-loving nation, happiest when their tourists, particularly female ones, are shackled to a significant other or part of a jolly group.
I assured him I wouldn’t be alone for long. I would be joining 10 others to swim around the Minor Cyclades — a cluster of tiny islands, including Naxos, Mykonos and Santorini. Baffled by the very idea, he winked, waved me on and yelled, “Next!”
I’ve never been drawn to organised group trips, let alone their terrifying cousin, the singles holiday. During periods of singledom — I’ve been in one for a year — I’m either a happy solo traveller or I’ve holidayed with friends and family. But this time, my brother and family, with whom I went away last summer, were off with fellow young parents; friends were working or saving money; and the willpower to head off on my own again, eight months after a solo trip, had momentarily deserted me.
A group holiday it was. I discounted a yoga retreat, because I did one a few years ago. Painting and photography seemed too sensible. I secretly thought if I chose well, I might meet someone nice. So when I heard of a trip to swim between Greek islands, I pounced. A week of my favourite activity, with danger thrown in, appealed hugely. And in my experience, outdoor swimmers are an adventurous lot — right up my street.
After a night in Athens’ deliciously seedy port of Piraeus, I boarded a large ferry to Naxos, followed by a smaller one to nearby Schinousa, an island of 200 people. In high season barely 600 tourists visit. When we arrived in early October, we felt like pioneers. Our group had exchanged emails before we set off, so I knew some of them would be on the same boat.
I found two, a young married couple from Atlanta, and we chatted excitedly. There was time for only brief hellos with the other swimmers at the harbour, but later, over a beer, I noted that everyone seemed not only normal, but really rather nice.
Nervous excitement
There followed a briefing on chafing, hypothermia, jellyfish stings, cramp and hand signals. They didn’t mention drowning, which was my bigger worry. But they did tell us that safety boats would be with us all the way. I felt a frisson of nervous excitement.
Breakfast the next morning was a merry affair, with the feel of a school trip. Two latecomers had arrived after drunkenly missing their ferry and hitching a lift on a fishing boat. You don’t get those sorts on a watercolour holiday, I thought.
First we swam 300m so we could be split into speed groups, then it was lunch followed by sunbathing. Nerves kicked in before our first swim. We struck out from the beach for a low-lying, scrubby headland. Before long, I was at the rear of the slow group. The waves picked up and I started to inhale mouthfuls of choppy salt water. My spirits sank. The speedy group had sprinted off like a pod of dolphins. As we turned back, I clambered into the boat with Andrew, one of our guides, defeated.
We’d made it 1.5km, the longest I’d ever swum and that night over dinner friendships began to form, our previous night’s polite chitchat turning into more personal conversation. I put it down to the wine — and the fact we’d already seen one another semi-naked. Swimming is a peculiarly bonding activity, more so in a hostile environment where you have to look out for one another.
My fellow swimmers, ranging in age from 28 to 53, included a quick-witted West Country lawyer; a pair of lively sisters who worked in the family undertaking business; two adorable couples; a fellow London girl; a pair of fast-living international yarn salesmen; and our guides, Andrew and Mia, bronzed and gorgeous. Many were attached, but there alone. No eligible men, I noted, but if I’d cared at the start, I didn’t now.
The following days were a blur of front crawl, sunbathing, eating and drinking. I started to enjoy the routine of the swims: the first thrilling plunge, finding a rhythm to my stroke and stopping to admire the scenery or point out interesting fish. The swims were meditative and satisfyingly tiring. As they grew in distance, so too did my speed and pleasure at completing them.
Feeling lonely
After the first few group dinners, we were free to do our own thing, but we stuck together, early evening beers turning into long dinners, then more drinks. On day four, I cried off. We’d be on board Katerina for hours and I knew that pitching boats and my stomach don’t get along. But after the bustle of the group, I suddenly felt very alone.
The following day was our longest swim: 5km from the island of Koufonisia to the uninhabited island of Keros. It was our first cloudy day, which lent a seriousness to the swim. The first half an hour was choppy.
With Keros looming, we could see how far we had to go. An hour later my stroke was flagging, my shoulders aching. Clambering on to the boat after the difficult final stretch, I felt elated.
On the last day we did two 2km swims, which would have felt long at the start of the week, and messed about, diving for shells. It gave me time to appreciate what we’d done: we’d seen parts of these ancient islands hidden from most tourists.
It was almost disappointing to have ended up with only a few minor conditions: swim-cap tan lines, sore eye sockets from tight goggles and burned bottoms. The closest we came to serious injury was when Andrew stuffed a seashell down his trunks, only to discover it had a live urchin inside.
That night one of the Atlantans turned 30. We took over a bar and partied until the small hours. The next morning, ashen-faced with hangovers, we arrived at Naxos, and the first of the group started to drift home.
We had bonded firmly and I wasn’t the only one feeling bereft. Over the course of my life, I will doubtless holiday with partners, family and friends. But I promised myself, there on Naxos, that whatever my life circumstances, I would make sure to escape with like-minded strangers again. — Guardian News & Media 2011
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