Football fans could not believe their eyes when the ‘man in black” for the Kaizer Chiefs versus Santos match turned out to be a woman. No, they weren’t in dreamland, Deidre Mitchell (31) was refereeing the game.
If anyone had any doubt about Mitchell’s ability, the flawless and professional manner in which she handled the match saw them eating humble pie.
Mitchell was quick to remind the players who was in charge, whipping out yellow cards to players who misbehaved. Although some tried to show contempt, she stamped her authority unflinchingly and, when she blew the final whistle, every fan showered her with accolades.
Mitchell, who says she became a referee by chance, promised to excel in future assignments and believes this will improve the standard of the beautiful game in the country. Her dream is to referee matches in the 2010 World Cup.
How do you earn a living?
I work as an administrative clerk for General Motors and as a part-time referee.
Where did you grow up?
In Shauderville, Port Elizabeth, in the Eastern Cape.
What primary school did you attend?
Adolf Shauder Primary School in 1991.
Which secondary school did you attend?
David Livingstone.
And tertiary?
Unfortunately, I could not proceed with tertiary education because of financial constraints.
Did you have a favourite teacher?
A lot of them, but Mrs Mack stands out of the pack. She was my home economics teacher.
Why?
Because she taught me to be independent, fearless and to follow my heart instead of always doing what society dictates.
What influence did she have on you?
To be myself and do what I am good at and not to worry about what people think of me.
Do you still have contact with her?
Not really. I saw her once during a visit to the school. It was good to see her, I must say.
What were your favourite subjects?
Home economics, because it taught me life skills. It was not just about cooking — it taught me one or two things on how to save money and how to make my own decisions.
What are the qualities of a good teacher?
One who cares about his or her learners, especially the learners who lag behind with their studies. The teacher should find out why the learner’s work is poor and help him or her to address problems.
What are the things a teacher should never do or say?
Teachers should not discourage learners in any way, especially the ‘difficult” ones. They should find creative ways of managing them. I think today things have changed, kids no longer show respect and teachers find themselves faced with a serious dilemma.
What message do you have for teachers in South Africa?
I feel that the government should empower teachers to help them to handle ill-disciplined children. In my experience learners take advantage of the abolition of corporal punishment and do as they like.