Decide now whether you’d like life support


Imagine you’re lying in a coma in a hospital bed, struck down by Covid-19. You’ve been subjected to aggressive, invasive treatment, including a thick, hard, plastic tube being thrust down your windpipe, a ventilator to help you breathe and a dialysis machine to filter your blood. 

These are life-saving devices. But you are simply too weak to recover, so these machines merely postpone your death.

You have no end-of-life documents specifically stating when technology like this should not be used. Your physician is forced to agonise over removing you from a machine that could save someone who is more likely to recover.

Now, if you had been asked before you got sick about your end-of-life preferences, what would you have said? 

“Continue treatment as long as I have a reasonable chance of doing things that give my life meaning. Otherwise, don’t let me linger on life support.” 

Or you may have said: “Do everything medically possible to keep me alive.”

The problem is that by the time you have to make these decisions, you may be unable to communicate, so your family has to speak for you. During lockdown, however, your family won’t be allowed anywhere near the hospital. Moreover, the doctor who cares for you in the hospital may not be someone who knows you at all. 

Covid-19 has transformed end-of-life care. To be sure that your wishes are carried out, you need a living will.

What is a living will?

A living will is a short document explaining what medical treatment you do or don’t want in the event that you can’t give informed consent. The document may allow for organ donation; using your organs to give someone else another chance at life. A living will can also nominate someone to make medical decisions on your behalf.


Keep in mind, however, that South Africa still doesn’t have laws specifically authorising living wills. But it is still a very useful document to have. 

Under current law, South Africans can refuse medical treatment (even if it causes death) unless a court orders certain treatment. Because euthanasia is still illegal, you cannot choose for doctor-assisted suicide in a living will. You are entitled to request for specific treatments to be withheld or withdrawn, but you cannot ask a doctor to end your life.

There’s also no guarantee that a living will will be honoured under all circumstances. The document may be too specific to apply to different circumstances, or it may be too vague to give clear directions about your wishes.

What are the benefits of a living will?

A living will does, however, give people peace of mind. Particularly when life is so unpredictable during this pandemic, it is natural to want to prepare for tragic situations and make them as light as possible for yourself and your family. 

Being on life-support, especially when there is no reasonable chance of recovery, is extremely expensive. And, although it might seem heartless to put a price on life, medical bills could be devastating for many families.

Drawing up a living will is relatively straightforward and you can do it yourself, although a lawyer can assist you with the process and ensure it is valid. The living will should, of course, be accessible, so best to give a family member and your general practitioner a copy. 

It is inevitable that we will be talking about death and be exposed to death during Covid-19. It is a grim reality, but a reality, nonetheless. As such, it is critical that we start talking about the end of life, before it’s too late. With day-to-day life feeling particularly uncertain, it is comforting to feel that something is still your choice.

Simon Delaney is an attorney in private practice in Johannesburg.  He writes in his personal capacity 

The views expressed are those of the author and do not reflect the official policy or position of the Mail & Guardian.

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Simon Delaney
Simon Delaney is an attorney in private practice in Johannesburg. He writes in his personal capacity

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